Everything about Physical Intimacy totally explained
Physical intimacy is sensual
proximity and/or touching. It can be enjoyed by itself and/or be an
expression of
feelings (such as close
friendship,
love, and/or sexual attraction) which people have for one another. Examples of physical intimacy include being inside someone's
personal space,
holding hands,
hugging,
kissing,
caressing, and
sexual activity.
The forms of physical intimacy, in order of increasing degree of intimacy (but not necessarily in order of increasing enjoyment), with each form generally including those preceding it, are: physical
closeness,
touching (especially tenderly), touching
intimate parts (including
outercourse), and
sexual penetration.
Intimate proximity
It is possible to be physically intimate with someone without actually touching him or her; however, a certain
proximity is necessary. For instance,
proximity and sustained
eye contact is a form of physical intimacy. When a person enters someone else's
personal space for the purpose of being intimate, it's physical intimacy, regardless of the lack of actual physical contact.
The objective of physical closeness can be a mix in various proportions of desired intimacy and practical aspects, such as lack of space, softness, stability (for example in a moving vehicle), and keeping warm; for example somebody sits on somebody else's lap, or sleeps leaning on somebody else. Physical closeness may also be involuntary, as in a crowded
train or
elevator. In such cases eye contact tends to be avoided. See also
frotteurism and
groping. Another form of this kind of closeness is when one goes to a crowded place for entertainment: a
bar,
disco,
pop concert,
street festival, etc.
Affectionate touching
Virtually any kind of physical touch can be seen as affectionate under the right circumstances, but common examples include:
- Holding hands
- Hugging: gently enclosing the arms around the trunk of each other or holding them against you
- Sitting on or lying against another person; resting one's head on the other's shoulder, lap, breast, etc.
- Caressing (petting): gently stroking body parts or hair with a hand
- Tickling
- Massaging someone's back, legs or feet or other part.
- Kissing
- Spooning
- Sexual intercourse
- Rubbing or patting someone's belly, mostly for babies
- Patting the butt or swatting the back or upper arm.
- Tapping the legs
A personal relationship that doesn't involve sexual behavior, for example friendship, may involve affectionate touching. Friends may avoid physical intimacy to avoid associations with sexuality or emotional intimacy, in order not to appear to be in a sexual relationship. The definition of "sexual" physical intimacy varies greatly.
The connotations of different kinds of physical intimacy are largely culturally influenced. In western culture hugging is more common among women than men. In other cultures, such as
Arab culture, men may hold hands with no implication of sexuality. Many
East Asian cultures typically encourage relatively little body contact between friends, acquaintances, and members of the same sex. Even among family members and spouses, traditionally, there are fewer public displays of affection.
Whether a person is wearing
clothing or is
nude also plays a role.
A
cuddle party is a party where strangers cuddle, touch, caress, and massage, subject to rules such as no
nudity, no hands under clothes, no
French kisses and no
dry humping or other sex.
Also a person, especially a
child, may caress and hug a
doll or
stuffed animal.
In the
Roman Catholic rite of the
Holy Mass, immediately after the
Doxology, the congregation will partake in the Pax or Rite of Peace. In most Western churches, this involves a handshake and the words "Peace be with you." If the other party is someone known to you, a hug may be substituted. Spouses tend to hug and/or kiss each other first before using the traditional handshake and "Peace be with you" for the other surrounding members of the congregation.
Skinship
In Japan and Korea, the term "skinship" is used to describe the intimacy, or closeness, between a mother and a child. Today, the word is generally used for bonding through physical contact, such as holding hands, hugging, or parents washing their child at a bath. The earliest citation of this word appears in
Nihon Kokugo Daijiten in
1971.
The apparent similarity with the English word '
kinship' raises the question whether this word was originally coined as a play on words. Use of the word "skinship" in English publications seems to focus on the notion of sharing a bath naked, an idea known in Japanese as 'hadaka no tsukiai' . It isn't clear why the meaning has shifted in being borrowed back into English.
Other forms of intimacy
Other kinds of
intimacy include:
emotional intimacy: talking about emotions, empathy and sympathy between two or more people.
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